Your marriage was made
for more than this.
A 4-week cohort for Christian couples ready to strengthen their foundation and build the life they know they can have.
Designed for couples who want to feel:
Applications close June 3 · Reviewed personally by Brittany & Jake.
God's design for your marriage
is already written.
You know the truth. You've heard the sermons. You've read the verses on love, covenant, patience, and purpose. And you still feel the drift.
That's not a faith problem. It's an application problem. The distance between knowing what God says about marriage and actually living it is exactly where most couples get stuck. Why? We bring our old stories into our marriage, and friend, God is writing a new story.
That gap is where we come in.
You love each other. You're just not really connecting anymore.
You go through the motions: dinner, the kids, bed. You're not in crisis. But something that used to feel alive has gone quiet.
You've tried the date nights. They help for a day. But nothing shifts the underlying drift.
You know your marriage is meant for more than this. You just haven't found the thing that actually gets you there.
Joy Filled Marriage Foundation
Four weeks. Ten couples. A high-touch, faith-grounded path toward a storm-proof, joy-filled marriage: rediscover your identity, create a shared vision, and learn to actually apply the framework to your real life, together.
Mondays at 6pm CT · 60 minutes.
Brittany and Jake lead every call. Ask anything. Go deep. This is where real breakthrough happens, with ten couples all fighting for the same thing.
15 minutes a week, made for you specifically.
Separate teaching videos for husbands and wives, built for your perspective. Watch on your own time, then bring what landed to the next call.
Extra touchpoints when you need them.
Life doesn't stay on schedule. Optional Q&A calls throughout the week let you go deeper and get what you need between Mondays.
Message Brittany & Jake directly.
You have their attention for the full four weeks. Not a chatbot. Not a support inbox. Real people who are actually invested in your marriage.
The 4-Week Journey
Individual Identity & Purpose
Before we look at your marriage, we look at you. Who are you as a son or daughter of God. What has He invited you into? Most couples skip this step entirely. We start here.
By the end of this week → You will feel Seen & Loved
New Identity & Purpose as a Couple
How does who you are individually shape who you are together? We explore what covenant actually means, and what God is specifically calling the two of you to accomplish. As one.
By the end of this week → You will feel Chosen & Called
Choosing Vision
You can't build toward something you haven't named. This week you cast a real vision for your marriage: what it looks like fully alive, what you're building, and who you're building it for.
By the end of this week → You will feel Excited & Expectant
Joy Filled Introduction
Identity. Purpose. Vision. Now what? Week four turns your new foundation into daily rhythms and priorities, so the shift doesn't end when the cohort does.
By the end of this week → You will feel Confident to Keep Growing
We're not here because we had a perfect marriage.
We're here because we chose to fight for a great one.
Brittany and Jake LoGrasso are high school sweethearts who have built their marriage through real seasons: long distance from Dallas to Japan, COVID isolation, Brittany's battle with chronic eczema, two cross-country moves in a year, building businesses together, and navigating new parenthood all at once.
They didn't find their way back from the edge. They've spent every season fighting toward something better. Proactively choosing each other, building rhythms that work, and refusing to let the drift win. They built Choosing Us because they believe marriage isn't meant to just survive. It's meant to thrive. And that doesn't happen by accident.
They're keeping it small on purpose. They want to know your name.
You'll know them when you meet them.
From the people who know Brittany & Jake, as coaches, mentors, and as a couple.
There's some people that come in your life and you're just like, there's something different about them. When we met Brittany and Jake, that was them. Because they seek their wisdom from God, you know you can trust their wisdom. Most people don't have a great marriage, great vision, great personality and great wisdom all together. Brittany and Jake have that.
They were super welcoming, super funny, and we always leave smiling every time we hang out with them. They're a great example of moving in faith, walking in faith, taking steps before seeing the next one. They helped us in our relationship and we just really love them so much.
Their desire to speak positivity and hope into the hearts of others, and to bring their knowledge and their love to the table. It's real. If you are considering spending time with people who are really going to help make you feel good about yourselves, Brittany and Jake would definitely do that.
Everything included in your spot.
Your spot isn't just the cohort. Here's everything you get when you're accepted.
The Joy Filled Marriage Foundation Cohort
4 weeks of live group coaching: Monday calls at 6pm CT, curated spouse videos, optional Q&A calls, and direct access to Brittany & Jake the entire time.
Lifetime Access to the Weekly Huddle Guide
The simple weekly ritual to stay connected after the cohort ends: one conversation starter, one couples challenge, one reflection question, delivered to your inbox every week. Forever.
Free 30-Min Welcome Call with Brittany & Jake
Before the cohort begins, you and your spouse get a private 30-minute call with Brittany and Jake, just to get acquainted, answer your questions, and make sure you feel ready before day one.
Conflict Resolution Guide
A practical, step-by-step guide to navigating "heated fellowship": the exact tools Brittany and Jake use in their own marriage to turn conflict into connection, not just resolution.
Vision Planning Worksheet
A guided worksheet to help you and your spouse cast a real vision for your marriage: not just goals, but the life you're building together and the legacy you want to leave.
Founding Member Discount: All Choosing Us Retreats
As an inaugural cohort member, you receive an exclusive discount on every Choosing Us Retreat we ever run. You were here first. And we don't forget that.
Applications close June 3 · Only 10 couples accepted
The Completion Guarantee
Show up to every call. Complete the weekly content. Engage fully for 4 weeks. If at the end of the cohort you don't feel like your marriage has genuinely moved. We will personally book a 1:1 session with you. No questions asked.
This isn't a satisfaction guarantee. It's a completion guarantee. Because the couples who do the work get the results. We're betting on that.
Is this right for us?
A few things we hear a lot, answered honestly.
What kind of couples is this for?
Any Christian couple ready to do the work. Some come in going through a genuinely hard season and need a reset. Others are doing well and know there's still more. The foundation we build together serves every marriage, no matter where you're starting from. If you're willing to show up fully for 4 weeks, you belong here.
Why is it pay-what-you-want? What's the catch?
No catch. We know finances are one of the tension points in marriage — we don't want to be another one. We're not gatekeeping. But we also know that when you actually invest in something, you show up for it differently. Name a number that's real to you. Enough that you take it seriously. That's all we ask.
My husband / wife is a little hesitant. Is that okay?
That's really common and totally workable. If your spouse knows you're applying and is at least open to it, that's enough for us. We can work with willing and uncertain. The application will ask about this.
We're busy. How much time does this actually take?
One live call per week, plus 20–30 minutes of videos and homework together. It's designed for real couples with real schedules. The couples who get the most out of it treat it like a weekly date with a purpose.
Do we need to be strong in our faith to apply?
Not perfect. Just willing. It's Christ who does the transforming, but he works with a humble and willing heart. You don't need to have it all figured out. You just need to want more for your marriage and be open to doing the work together.
Isaiah 43:19
"Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert."
We truly believe God wants to do a new thing in your marriage. His heart is for you. His heart is for your marriage. His heart is for your children. No matter where you are on this journey. There is hope for the future you dream of.
Tell us about you and your spouse.
Takes about 5 minutes. We limit to 10 couples because Brittany and Jake personally walk alongside every couple. That level of connection isn't possible at scale. We read every application personally and follow up within a few days.