Your marriage was made
for more than this.
A 4-week live cohort for couples ready to build
a storm-proof, joy-filled marriage — on purpose.
Applications reviewed personally by Jake & Brittany.
You love each other. You're just not really connecting anymore.
You go through the motions — dinner, the kids, bed. You're not in crisis. But something that used to feel alive has gone quiet.
You've tried the date nights. They help for a day. But nothing shifts the underlying drift.
You know your marriage is meant for more than this. You just haven't found the thing that actually gets you there.
Joy Filled Marriage Foundation
Four weeks. Ten couples. One honest, practical, faith-grounded path toward a storm-proof, joy-filled marriage — where you rediscover your identity, create a rhythm of fun and relentless pursuit, and cast vision you can actually run after together.
Get in it together, in real time.
Group coaching calls with Jake & Brittany each week. Ask anything. Go deep. This is where the shift actually happens.
Short, focused, and made for you.
Pre-recorded videos you watch together — and some created just for husbands, some just for wives. Watch on your own time, then bring it to the call.
Exercises that open real conversations.
Practical, meaningful prompts you do together at home. Not busywork — the kind of questions that actually go somewhere.
You won't figure it out alone.
Jake & Brittany are in it with you for all four weeks. Not a faceless course. A real relationship with people who actually care.
The 4-Week Journey
Individual Identity & Purpose
Before we look at your marriage, we look at you. Who are you as a son or daughter of God — and what has He invited you into? Most couples skip this step entirely. We start here.
New Identity & Purpose as a Couple
How does who you are individually shape who you are together? We explore what covenant actually means, and what God is specifically calling the two of you to accomplish — as one.
Choosing Vision
You can't build toward something you haven't named. This week you cast a real vision for your marriage — what it looks like fully alive, what you're building, and who you're building it for.
Joy Filled Introduction
Identity. Purpose. Vision. Now what? Week four turns your new foundation into daily rhythms and priorities — so the shift doesn't end when the cohort does.
We're not here because we had a perfect marriage.
We're here because we chose to fight for a great one.
Jake and Brittany LoGrasso are high school sweethearts who have built their marriage through real seasons — long distance, COVID isolation, Brittany's battle with chronic eczema, two cross-country moves in a year, building businesses together, and navigating new parenthood all at once.
They didn't find their way back from the edge. They've spent every season fighting toward something better — proactively choosing each other, building rhythms that work, and refusing to let the drift win. They built Choosing Us because they believe marriage isn't meant to just survive. It's meant to thrive. And that doesn't happen by accident.
This cohort is their first. They're keeping it small on purpose. They want to know your name.
You'll know them when you meet them.
From the people who know Jake & Brittany — as coaches, mentors, and as a couple.
There's some people that come in your life and you're just like, there's something different about them. When we met Brittany and Jake, that was them. Because they seek their wisdom from God, you know you can trust their wisdom. Most people don't have a great marriage, great vision, great personality and great wisdom all together — Jake and Brittany have that.
They were super welcoming, super funny, and we always leave smiling every time we hang out with them. They're a great example of moving in faith, walking in faith, taking steps before seeing the next one. They helped us in our relationship and we just really love them so much.
Their desire to speak positivity and hope into the hearts of others, and to bring their knowledge and their love to the table — it's real. If you are considering spending time with people who are really going to help make you feel good about yourselves, Jake and Brittany would definitely do that.
Is this right for us?
A few things we hear a lot — answered honestly.
Our marriage is okay — we're not in crisis. Does this still apply?
This is exactly who it's for. The Joy Filled Marriage Foundation isn't a rescue program — it's for couples who love each other and want more than okay. If you feel the quiet drift and want something more intentional, you belong here.
Why is it pay-what-you-want? What's the catch?
There's no catch. This is our first cohort and we want transformation stories more than revenue. You name a number that makes you take this seriously — whatever that looks like for your family. The only requirement is that you show up fully.
My husband / wife is a little hesitant. Is that okay?
That's really common and totally workable. If your spouse knows you're applying and is at least open to it, that's enough for us. We can work with willing and uncertain. The application will ask about this.
We're busy. How much time does this actually take?
One live call per week, plus 20–30 minutes of videos and homework together. It's designed for real couples with real schedules. The couples who get the most out of it treat it like a weekly date with a purpose.
Do we need to be strong in our faith to apply?
Not perfect — just willing. It's Christ who does the transforming, but he works with a humble and willing heart. You don't need to have it all figured out. You just need to want more for your marriage and be open to doing the work together.
Isaiah 43:19
"Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert."
We truly believe God wants to do a new thing in your marriage. His heart is for you. His heart is for your marriage. His heart is for your children. No matter where you are on this journey — there is hope for the future you dream of.
Tell us about you and your spouse.
Takes about 5 minutes. We read every application personally and follow up within a few days.